Poet Robert Bly's Iron John in the preface says that "the images of adult manhood given by the popular culture are worn out" and then provides new interpretations of what it means to be a man, "new visions of what a man is or could be." Certainly we need to go beyond the stereotype of a man as one who stifles feeling and uses violence and death as the # 1 go-to for solving conflict.
In Bly's preface to Iron John, Bly states: "There is male initiation, female initiation, and human initiation. In this book I am talking about male initiation only." He continues by saying that the book is not a reaction against the women's movement but rather an addition to the movement of men to understand themselves, each exploration moving "on a separate timetable."
From reading passages with the "Look Inside" function at Amazon, it appears that Upton's prose style is denser and more rambling than Bly's. However, his ideas do indeed stimulate thought, enriching the reading of Bly's Iron John. He mentions that one attempt by men to embrace their greater selves was to embrace the concept of the earth mother, but to embrace the All-Mother through loving the earth through the senses, what men ended up with "was a goddess too big to marry and too indifferent and impersonal to act as the protective mother we hoped she would be for us, the nurturing bosom that would shield us against the negative father-world of raw technological society."
Upton continues in the next paragraph:
"The lesson we needed to learn was that the Great Mother as an image is not the same thing as the Earth as an experience. We 'come to our senses' not by worshiping the idea of sense-experience, even in the most idyllic surroundings, but by quieting the mind." (from "The Rejection of Transcendence")Who can be the mentor to initiate a man into his own masculinity? How can a man find himself? This is the theme of both books. Perhaps Bly chose his tight focus on men finding themselves because of what he perceived as the need of the times. I remember one powerful passage in Bly's book where he mentions myths of the Earth Father that have been lost or overlooked through time. I like the idea of man being a steward to the earth. Upton reacts from his experience, including in his book reference to his experiences in the 60's and 70's and his disenchantment with the limitations of many of the movements of his times. He takes these experiences, though, and synthesizes them into a vision
News of the Universe: Poems of Twofold Consciousness in 1980, ten years before Iron John. In the anthology, he includes poems "in which the human consciousness, though present, becomes transparent." He includes poems about the "struggle to open the consciousness-door" and poems that "suggest a certain unity of consciousness that we haven't arrived at yet," that older cultures expressed in poetry "a deeper union than the post-Industrial Revolution psyche has yet achieved."
I guess this is why I practice the Transcendental Meditation technique and why so many of us are seeking knowledge of who we are. By finding the Self, that which is beyond duality, neither man or woman but the essence of both, we can then step onto the platform that our body and life's work give us and act--as a man, a wo-man, or a hu-man.
In the epilogue to Hammering Hot Iron, Charles Upton ends with a poem entitled "To Robert":
You call--I answer with an echo/The shape of the broken cliff that birthed me,/The shape of your voice./If ever your loveWe are who we are, and may God bless us with self-knowledge and happiness.
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